The Cute couples rings Finger: A deeper symbolism
Understanding the significance behind the Matching Couple Necklaces adds depth to this tradition. The circular shape of the ring represents an unending and everlasting love. Why the fourth finger and more specifically, the left hand?
According to Dr. Jane R. Lewis a renowned anthropologist "the left hand is typically seen as being second to the rights hand in a variety of cultures. It is the hand that is considered to be the other. By placing the wedding band on the left-hand it signifies that love and commitment is distinct from the more common right-handed actions in everyday life. It's a physical reminder of the special and unique bond of marriage."
As we've discussed, the fourth finger's perceived connection to the heart is a powerful symbol. This direct route to the heart indicates that our love and dedication are not just superficial emotions, but deeply embedded in our hearts.
There are a variety of interpretations of the significance of the wedding finger for the ring. The journey of the ring from the fingers to the fourth finger could be a symbol for some couples. From the first spark of attraction (a fingertip touch) to the deep emotional connection and commitment to marriage (the fourth finger that connects the heart).
These symbolic interpretations can make the wedding ring more than just the place to wear a beautiful piece of jewelry. It's a daily reminder of love, commitment, and the journey you're on with your partner.
Adapting Tradition: The Modern Take on the Wedding Ring Finger
The custom of wearing an engagement ring on just one finger has changed over time, just like any other tradition. In our modern, diverse society the "rules" concerning the wedding ring finger are not as rigid and more reflective of personal preferences and cultural background.
In the present, it is not uncommon for couples or individuals to decide the finger or hand that their wedding rings will be placed. The decision can be based on the tradition of their culture, personal comfort, practicality or even the desire to redefine symbols and traditions in a manner that is compatible with the unique relationship and personal identity.
A relationship therapist, Dr. Sarah R. Young states, "In my practice, I encourage couples to make a conscious choice regarding their wedding customs including the engagement ring. This choice can become an intimate discussion between partners about what their commitment looks like and how they want to represent it. The way symbols are defined can have a significant effect on their meaning.
Modern interpretations of the wedding ring finger tradition don't detract from its significance but instead create personal layers of meaning. As long as chosen symbolism is in keeping with the couple's commitment and shared understanding, the finger or hand doesn't matter.